Does sex create tension and conflict?

Overcome your sexual frustrations in your marriage and get the passion & love you desire for good!

 

You love each other.
You crave a deeper connection.

As a trained Sex and Intimacy Coach, we’ve helped thousands of couples since 2017 find hope and joy in their intimate relationship.

Wives

Does this sound familiar?

“I love my husband but sometimes sex feels like a chore.”

“I feel guilty saying no all the time. So I say yes, but resent him afterwards.”

“I have low libido, and no matter how hard I try I’ll never catch up to his.”

“I wish he would pursue me, open up to me, be more honest with me, and be more confident around me.”

“I want him to want all of me, not just sex. It feels like all he wants to talk about is sex.”

“I wonder if I’m broken or something is wrong with me.”

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Husbands

Does this sound familiar?

“I want to be wanted sexually by my wife.”

“It feels like we’re more like roommates than passionate lovers.”

“Our sex life is routine and predictable. I want more zest and fun.”

“I wish I didn’t have such a high sex drive because of all of the conflict it causes in our marriage.”

“I hate being criticized and judged when I share my thoughts”

“I’ve tried everything but nothing seems to work.” 

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Introducing the
Get Your Marriage On! Program:

Your new intimacy BFF.

Get Your Marriage On is a program for couples that will help husbands and wives want and enjoy sex and deepen the intimate connection, in 90 days or less.

What it’s not:

  • A list of things to “spice things up” (those don’t help!)
  • Shaming, intimidating, pressuring, or guilting (this works against you!)
  • A one-size, fits-none nonsense (every couple is different!)

What it is:

  • Sex-positive (shame-free)
  • Intimacy-based (addressing the core issue)
  • Professional & well researched (you can trust the process)
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    Why This Program is Effective

    We address the root of the issue in your marriage.

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    Research shows modern American sex therapy fails couples.  The problem sexual desire in marriage is not an individual or genital issue. It is an intimacy issue.

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    Cultural and family messages you absorbed also complicate intimacy issues and your sex life.

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    Instead of quick fixes, we work with husbands and wives to address the root of the issues in their marriage.

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    Our expert coaches give you specialized support for your individual circumstances every step of the way.

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    Our men’s only and women’s only groups give husbands and wives the exact helps each needs for their relationship, in an accelerated and supportive way.

    Are you ready for help?

    Couples Describe Our Program as:

    Life Changing, Expanding & a Safe Space

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    Maybe you’ve tried:

    • Reading Books
    • Listening to podcasts
    • Going to therapy
    • Scheduling sex
    • Negotiating with your spouse
    • Pleading with your spouse

    This can go on for years without success. You’ve thought about giving up because you both end up feeling frustrated and defeated. Here’s your alternative solution that can truly make a difference, for good.

    “We have hope & fulfillment again!”

    After 12 years of marriage, Joy and Jeremy got along really well in all aspects of their relationship except when it came to sex and intimacy. The differences in preferences and desires brought up patterns of resentment and distancing. Then they started the Next Level System and they have more hope and fulfillment in their marriage than ever.

    “A worthwhile investment in our forever marriage”

    After over 22 years of marriage, Wade and Sheri were ready to invest in improving intimacy. Hear their experience learning in the group environment.

     

    “Finally, after 40 years of frustration, we’re enjoying sex!”

    Cathy and Ken struggled with differences in sexual desire and a low-intimacy marriage for nearly 40 years. Then they learned the tools in the Get Your Marriage On Program and feel like newlyweds again.

    Emily Purcell
    Dan Purcell, Marriage Coach

    Hi there, We’re Dan & Emily

    We’re the founders of Get Your Marriage On! and creators of the program.

    We’ve been there before. We’ve lived through just about every common sexual frustration in our marriage. We didn’t know where to turn to with our concerns about our intimate relationship that were in line with our values.

    After our own marriage transformed, we couldn’t keep the things we were learning to ourselves.

    We want to invest in your marriage. We look forward to being part of your success plan. As trained professional marriage & sex coaches, we’ve helped thousands of couples build passionate marriages.

    We strongly believe that you don’t need to stay stuck in a rut, having the same conflicts over and over again. Having a passionate, intimate marriage is within your reach. Love is life’s sweetest gift; a gift available to you. 

    Why Couples Struggle With Sexual Differences

    It doesn’t mean you’re broken, not compatible, and isn’t a justification for infidelity.

    Sexual intimacy in a long-term relationship is complicated. Men and women receive many mixed messages in our culture. For example, women are told that they should cover up, be modest, not be “easy,” yet be sexually attractive.

    Another example: men are told that if they wash the dishes, help with kids, and be a “nice guy,” they’ll get the sex they want. These messages are wrong and unhelpful because they focus on the wrong thing. Let’s talk about what actually helps.

    Empower Intimacy. Cherish, nurture, connect emotionally. Use intuition, trust, desire deeper.

    The solution to differences in sexual desire is intimacy.

    To build deeper intimacy, couples need…

    1. Husbands need to be empowered to love deeply through their sexuality.

    Husbands need to learn how to connect emotionally to themselves first, and then to their wives.

    Rather than apologizing for wanting sex with your wife, husbands can transform their marriage by harnessing their desire for sex towards deeply loving, caring, and nurting their wives.

    2. Wives need to learn to be empowered to desire.

    Due to cultural messages or family upbrining, too many women are taught to be wantless and desireless. Wives who transform their marriage learn to prioritize pleasure.

    Wives who are empowered to trust in their own intuition and desires can lean in fully into the marriage and enjoy all of the delight available to them.

    Empowered women realize they have just as much, if not more, sexual capacity than their husbands.

    3. Empowered couples cherish one another.

    Being cherished by your spouse, for who you are, is the greatest gift another person can give you.

    Husbands and wives who transform their marriage see sex as a means of cherishing each other. They see sex as a means to an end rather than an end in and of itself.

    Husbands and wives realize their task is to love another person who is different from you.

    The Program Steps

    Step by step, you and your spouse will grow your intimacy together by following these research-based milestones.

    Week 1

    Empowerment through Personal Responsibility

    Honesty and personal responsibility is at the heart of intimacy. Sexual development and spiritual development are linked.

    Week 2

    The 3 Stage Framework

    Sexual development follows patterns in adult development. Learn the three stage framework and how to get from a 1 to a 2, and from a 2 to a 3.

    Week 3

    Challenges of Modern Sexual Relationships

    Married couples in particular have unique challenges with sex. Recognize what messages you’ve absorbed and decide what serves you and no longer serves you.

    Week 4

    Awareness & Accountability

    Seeing our own actions and patterns is the first step towards becoming the person and creating marriage we really want.

    Week 5

    Balanced Belonging

    Overcome resentment in your relationship for good. At the heart of every conflict in intimate relationships is the balance of attachment (belonging to your spouse) and autonomy (belonging to yourself). Learn skills to identify where you’re off balance and how to correct it, and how to resolve conflict productively.

    Week 6

    Courageous Choosing

    Seeing our own actions and patterns is the first step towards becoming the person and creating marriage we really want. 

    Week 7

    Developing Desire

    Overcome desire differences for good. In the early days of your relationship, desire came easy. Now that you’re past the honeymoon phase, you will learn your turn-ons (and turn-offs). You’ll master specific skills to keep cultivating desire for both women and men.

    Week 8

    Anatomy of Arousal

    Many of us didn’t get a helpful sex education that includes pleasure and arousal. This week is all about sexual anatomy and how arousal works in your body, mind, and marriage.

    Week 9

    Embracing Eroticism

    Eroticism, as defined in this program, is the feeling of aliveness and describes the life force. In this program you’ll learn how to breathe new life into your bedroom (and out), how to find more pleasure in sex, and how to have foreplay all day long. 

    Week 10

    Living Orgasmically

    Cherishing one’s spouse is essential to cultivating a lifelong relationship to joy in marriage. This week also discusses an approach to sex that does away with goal-oriented thinking and replaces it with deep cherishing.

    Testimonial: "I've been literally a decade in therapy. And I've gained more in the last 12 weeks of understanding what I can do to improve instead of just thinking about what I wish my wife did differently. I can just concentrate on myself and what I can control and that puts me in a feeling of hope I haven't had in a long time."

    We're a Real Team Now

    “We’re blown away by how much we’ve grown in this area of our relationship. It feels like we’re a real team now, are both committed to working at ourselves, and to having a great sexual relationship, for ourselves, for each other, and for us together, and it’s exciting to be on this journey together. We are having lots of fun with our sex life. The holiday sex was amazing – we’re doing some more adventurous things in bed and finding pleasure in more ways. During our time apart we’re having lots of fun texting and sharing fantasies, and appreciating the anticipation that this separation brings.”

    D & J

     

    The Program Method

    Why is Get Your Marriage On so effective at getting results for couples?

    The Three C’s

    Compassionate coaching, comprehensive course, caring community, results

    Live Group Coaching Sessions

    Get lifetime access to an expert sex & intimacy coach. Sessions are offered two – three times a week. We also offer Men’s Only sessions, Women’s Only sessions, and 1:1 coaching sessions several times every month.

    These sessions are held at various times to accommodate your busy schedule. A replay of most coaching sessions are available so you never miss a beat.

    Your privacy and confidentiality is assured. For instance, recorded coaching sessions in the Women’s Only are never shared with men, and visa versa.

    The Signature Program

    Lifetime access to the signature course for addressing desire differences in marriages. This comprehensive course contains over 13 hours of videos, broken into smaller, 20 minute-sized chunks.

    You can watch or listen at your own pace. There are ten modules that build on one another. We recommend going through one module a week.

    When you join, we mail you two copies of the color printed 124-page guidebook to accompany the course!

    Private Community

    Accelerate progress by learning together with others. Husbands and wives get separate, private discussion groups to learn together and support each other. This is NOT using a social media platform (#sighofrelief).

    When you attend our in-person retreats or join a cohort, you also get access to the private discussion group set apart for that group.

    Here’s How Husbands and Wives Get Coaching, The Course, and Community in The Program

    Here’s why you need all three together:

    Just A Course may give you new ideas and mindset, but a course alone leaves you confused with how to apply the information to your specific circumstances.

    Just Coaching (or therapy) may give you specific guidance, but without a community you feel alone and isolated.

    Just A Community can give you support from peers, but without coaching (implementation) and the course (correct principles), it leaves you spinning in place.

    But when you combine the course, coaching, and community, you get exactly what you need, step by step, week by week, to achieve your goals in your marriage.

     

    Get Your Marriage On is a good fit if

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    You’re in a committed, long-term heterosexual marriage / relationship

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    You’re committed to resolving the frustration around differences of sexual desire (mismatched libidos).

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    Often it’s the husband with higher desire for sex, but many higher desire wives have seen great results with this program too!

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    You’re in an otherwise healthy marriage

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    You feel safe enough with each other to work together to improve intimacy in your marriage

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    Get Your Marriage On is a bad fit if

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    You’re not in a committed long-term relationship

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    You’re in an abusive relationship

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    You’ve experienced severe sexual trauma that hasn’t been addressed by a mental health professional

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    You’re looking for a program that will tell your spouse how messed up they are, and use it as a weapon against them

    We’ve Got You Covered

    (…or uncovered?)
    Everything you get with the program:

    Next Level System

    The Next Level System, which includes a research-based and faith-centered step-by-step method to help you deepen intimacy in marriage.

    $9,400 value

    Lifetime of Weekly Coaching

    Weekly coaching opportunities to help you apply concepts and get traction and progress quickly, for life.

    $25,000 value

    Ask a Coach

    We have a comprehensive Ask A Coach feature, offering you 24 / 7 written help from professionals.

    $1,800 value

    10 Module Course

    Over 13 hours of video content, and two copies of both the 124-page companion guide and action planner.

    $2,500 value

    Sub Groups

    Be part of a 55+, Men’s Only, or Women’s Only group and find support from your peers.

    $5,400 value

    Security & Confidentiality

    Designed for confidentiality and security. Stay as anonymous as you’d like in this program.

    Mobile App Access

    Built for busy couples, the app makes it really easy to follow along and grow your marriage, even for busy people.

    $1,200 value

    Bonus Guides

    Includes our popular guides and e-books, such as: 101 creative ways to initiate sex, Ultimate Guides to Pleasing Your Husband and Wife

    $520 value

    Library of Workshops

    28+ in-depth workshops on topics such as overcoming sexual dysfunction, how to talk to kids about sex, overcoming pornography use, and more.

    $560 value

    Podcast Access

    Private podcast access for everything, making it easy to listen to the program while on the go.

    $99 value

    "After Dark" Seminars

    Our in-depth “After Dark” seminars add more spice and fun into your marriage, covering topics such as role-play, oral sex, and more.

    $280 value

    Courageous Couples

    Although their names and identifying details have been changed, you get access to listen to dozens of recordings of coaching calls with other couples.

    $360 value

    Conversation Starters

    Our conversation starter cheat sheet jump-starts relationship growth and aids in overcoming conflict fast.

    $99 value

    Both Partners Included

    Two-for-one: your spouse gets a full access at account at no additional charge.

    Access to More Apps

    Automatically get upgraded to the premium version of Intimately Us and Just Between Us apps

    $95 value

    Fun & Sexy Date Nights

    Over 20 fun & sexy at-home assignments designed to reignite passion, romance, and connection in and out of the bedroom.

    $200 value

    Total value: $47,513

    Meet Your Team of Professionals

    Dan Purcell

    Dan is a Professional Life Coach that specializes helping couples improve intimacy in their marriage. He is a Christian that’s passionate about sex and marriage. He’s the founder of Get Your Marriage On, podcast host with over one million downloads, and the creator of the popular Intimately Us and Just Between Us apps.

    He’s married to his amazing wife Emily for over 20 years and they have 6 children. Dan likes to run, spend time with his family, and explore the beautiful outdoors near their St George home.

     

    Amy Langford

    Amy has a bachelor’s in family science and is a Certified Life Coach that is passionate about helping couples move from stuck to thriving! Amy can help you to become more connected to yourself in an honest and kind relationship, so you can create connection with your spouse. Amy teaches relationship tools that take your marriage from disconnected to intimate. When you’re feeling stuck in your relationships, Amy can help you up level your relationships.

    Amy and her husband Greg have been married for over 26 years, have four children and one son-in-law. They love to travel, ride horses, and laugh a lot at Greg’s jokes.

     

    Tammy Camp

    Tammy is a Certified Marriage and Intimacy Coach. She specializes in helping women overcome “Good Girl” syndrome as well as helping men gain skills in intimacy with their wives. She has a passion for bringing back the passion into relationships. Tammy loves helping others learn how to really see what a healthy, intimate relationship looks like as she continues to learn and grow in her own relationship. Tammy is ready to help you move into a place where you once felt stuck, to a place of newness and growth.

    She and her husband Jake have been married for 23 years, have three children, and enjoy their hobby farm near the gorgeous mountains of Utah.

    Testimonials

    We Were So Stuck!

    “It can be a very difficult step reaching out to someone about something so personal. I have struggled for a long time in marriage with our sex life and I wasn’t sure what to do or who to reach out to. We seem to be stuck on the same issues and conflicts.

    Then I came across Dan on the Get Your Marriage On app. Actually, it was mostly my husband who was listening to him and out of curiosity, I decided to listen in on some of the podcasts too. I could relate so much to what was being talked about! It was such a relief to know that I was not alone in how I was feeling and what I was experiencing in my married sex relationship.

    Then I heard he coaches couples as well. To hear Dan’s heart and experiences, to feel the passion he has for helping couples during the podcasts made me wonder… could he possibly help my marriage too? I knew if there was anyone to reach out to and try, it was Dan.

    We nervously scheduled our first session and it has been going so great ever since! He listens so well and offers such great insight and suggestions into what we can do. I started in such a defeated, hopeless state…and things have suddenly become hopeful again! It has been so good meeting together and having that neutral person help us to sort through things as a couple. He makes it so convenient, we schedule and meet regularly together online due to being in Canada.

    If you’re willing to put in the work together and push into those difficult places within yourself, it’s worth it for your marriage! You will not be disappointed and we both highly recommend Dan to anyone!”

    J & A

    Changing Lives

    “I’ll start by thanking you for the [Get Your Marriage On!] coaching program. It was amazing, well worth the investment, and is still paying off for me! You’re changing lives 🙂 “

    A & R

     

    Like Newly Weds

    “I can’t thank you enough for you work and what it has done for our marriage. We still get asked now and then if we are newly weds and our oldest graduates this year from high school. 22 year and still going strong. Thanks for the new energy you have given us.”

    D & J

     

    Curiosity and Self Exploration

    “Your retreat really set us off on a wonderful journey of curiosity and self exploration. Thank you for helping me get rid of so much shame I had around my sexuality and to finally accept myself as a healthy loving Human that God created. It was truly a blessing and I have recommended this work shop to many of my friends along with your podcast. I pray that God continues to bless your ministry and those involved.”

    B & A

     

    What You Get When You Join

    Our packages including weekly live coaching calls. Why? A program to improve intimacy in marriage without a monthly subscription decreases pressure, allows one spouse to start alone if the second is reluctant, and removes time constraint stressors. Find comfort in a comprehensive resource for all of the seasons in your life.

    Bonuses When You Join

    Over $200 In Bedroom Supplies Mailed To You

    When you join the Get Your Marriage On program, we’ll mail you two printed copies of the 124-page accompanying guide, plus over $200 in supplies to add connection, novelty, and fun to your marriage.

    Intimately Us App

    Intimately Us and Just Between Us Premium Upgrade

    You’ll receive the full, premium versions of the Intimately Us and Just Between Us apps ($100 in value).

    $1,000 Off The Next In-Person Retreat

    Enjoy huge savings at our renowned couples retreats. Get away with your spouse in a luxurious and beautiful setting. More details are on our Couples Retreat page.

    Pick a Plan That’s Right for Your Marriage

    Month to Month

    Investment: $150 Monthly

    • Course Access
    • Group Coaching (8-10 times monthly)
    • Men’s & Women’s Only Group Access
    • 28+ Bonus Workshops

    30 Day Money Back Guarantee

    1 Year Access

    Investment: $1,500

    Or twelve installments of $125

    • Course Lifetime Access
    • Group Coaching (8-10 times monthly)
    • Men’s & Women’s Only Group Access
    • 28+ Bonus Workshops
    • Premium Access to Intimately Us & Just Between Us Apps
    • $1,000 Off Your Next In-Person Retreat

    30 Day Money Back Guarantee

    Lifetime Access

    Investment: $2,500

    Or twelve installments of $208

    • Course Lifetime Access
    • Group Coaching (8-10 times monthly)
    • Men’s & Women’s Only Group Access
    • 28+ Bonus Workshops
    • Premium Access to Intimately Us & Just Between Us Apps
    • $1,000 Off Your Next In-Person Retreat
    • $200 Bedroom Bundle Included

    30 Day Money Back Guarantee

    Refund Policy

    If after 30 days of the program you don’t feel like it’s a good fit for you, you can request a 100% refund.

    Questions? Book A Free Call.

    If you’re interested in joining the program but have questions, schedule a free call with our team.

    Pricing Per Couple

    Pricing is per couple. When you sign up, your spouse gets an account for free.

    Course Access Only

    One Time Investment: $285

    Comprehensive Course

    Lifetime Access

    Complete at Your Own Pace

    30 Day Money Back Guarantee

    Pricing is per couple. When you sign up, your spouse gets an account for free.

    Does this feel like a big investment?

    Alternatives Options 

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    3 months of couples therapy: $3,250

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    DIY with books, social media, podcasts, blogs: years? decades? never?

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    Marriage’s negative impact on children: hurtful, affecting generations

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    Other coaching programs: $525 / month

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    Lifetime weekly coaching included

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    Fast & effective. Most couples see results within 90 days or less. 

    You’ve spent years staying stuck with libido differences. How much has that cost you in sleepless nights, frustrated arguments, and dissatisfaction? Not to mention, the possiblity of a costly divorce when it can be avoided.

    It’s time to get a real program that actually helps!

    Not Sure Yet?

    It’s completely natural to feel hesitant about joining this program. Allow us to put your mind at ease. Here are common concerns we hear from couples:

    I'm a private person. This is scary to me.

    We’ve got you. We want you to feel comfortable in our program. You can stay as anonymous as you like if needed. Our team of trained sex & intimacy coaches are well aware this is often a difficult and sensitive area of your life and approach this topic with compassion and understanding.

    I feel like I could go the rest of my life without sex.

    You might wonder if you’re asexual or some other label you’ve given yourself to explain why you have low libido. We can assure you that you’re not broken. We can dig in deeper to help you better understand what’s going on. Most of the time, it’s a blend of many factors, primarily the intimate relationship with your spouse, that is affecting you. Let us work with you to show you a better way!

    I feel pressure to increase my libido. Will this program adds to that pressure?

    Many traditional American sex therapists treat low libido by pressuring you to orgasm more frequently, watch porn, read erotica, or masturbate and fantasize. This approach may work for some in the short term, but doesn’t work in the long term because it doesn’t address the core issue (intimacy in the relationship).

    We take a no-pressure approach to addressing intimacy (emotional, spiritual, sexual) in your marriage. You can go at your own pace.

    My spouse doesn't seem interested in addressing this issue in our marriage.

    We’ve been there before ourselves. It’s natural for one person in the marriage to be more motivated to address sexual concerns than the other. Our program is designed so that just one of you can get a head start, and the other can join when they’re ready. 

    We also believe it takes only one of you in the marriage to start the chain-reaction of positive change in your marriage.

    What if this program doesn't work?

    No other program offers lifetime coaching, as comprehensive of a course, or as dedicated of a community as the Get Your Marriage On program. Hundreds of couples are getting results in our program.

    I feel ashamed for wanting (or not wanting) sex.

    We talk about sex in a way you’ve probably never heard before: the spiritual side of of sexual development. We also discuss how sex is about connection & pleasure, rooted in an intimate relationship. This is a shame-free, sex-positive approach to addressing sexual concerns in a long-term marriage.

    Joining Get Your Marriage On feels like hope.

    After joining, here’s what you can expect.

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    Set up your Welcome Call

    Set up your Welcome Call with a coach. We’ll welcome you, learn more about your goals, and help you get everything set up.

     

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    Receive the Welcome Box in the mail

    We mail you two copies of the color printed 124-page guidebook to accompany the course! We also throw in about $200 of fun things for the bedroom while we’re at it.

     

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    Join Your First Coaching Session & Your First Video

    Accelerate progress by learning together and with others. Our coaches guide you through, step by step, week by week, to help you achieve your goals.

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    Join the Men's and Women's Only groups

    These groups are private. What you share here is not shared with your spouse. Get insights directly for your needs here, led by caring coaches.

     

    Gave Us Hope

    “We really appreciated the coaching calls. It was so eye opening to hear and see that we are not the only ones. It also gave us hope that things could change and they did. The workshops were good. The regular podcasts were good. We especially like the Blow Jobs Aren’t just for Him episode among others. 

    Despite being married for 25 years, we feel like newbies and inexperienced. We loved all the new ideas and mindset changes we went through. We are now comfortable talking about sex together and feel like we can progress more.”

    M & P

    Answer to My Prayer

    “We have enjoyed this program, along with the classes. You have taught us so much and we feel like we are a stronger couple now. You helped us get through a really tough point in our marriage and were an answer to my prayer.”

    M & M

     

    Intimacy has grown Exponentially

    “Honestly, between marriage counseling up until about August, and our wonderful experience with the retreat, our marriage and the level of intimacy between us (of all kinds) has grown exponentially. Thanks so much for being a wonderful part of that process Dan.”
    C & E

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    Dan and Emily embracing

    The Get Your Marriage On Program is about so much more than just sex!

    It’s also about…

    • Finding more purpose and zest for life.
    • Being a more capable lover.
    • Becoming more mindful and at peace with yourself and others.
    • Rediscovering yourself and being more confident in your own skin.
    • Understanding emotions and how to use them to connect you to your spouse and others.
    • Gaining a greater capacity to handle the challenges that come in life.
    • Creating a marriage that lasts a lifetime & beyond, blessing your children and grandchildren.

    Ready to remove conflict around sex  for good? 

    It’s absolutely possible. Let’s do this together.

    Frequently Asked

    Questions

    How long does it take before we will see results?

    Most couples begin to see results within 4 – 6 weeks and fully realize changes within 90 days of following our process and program. By taking action with the simple step-by-step program, they learn to recognize old patterns that interfere with their goals and begin to establish better patterns that promote more honesty and openness in the marriage.

    Couples that succeed are committed to a better relationship. They watch the modules, complete the fun & sexy at home assignments associated with the modules, following along in the program guide we mail you, and participating in coaching sessions regularly.

    I want to better understand who you are before I sign up. What do you believe in, what do you stand for?

    One of the best ways to get to know us is by checking out these free resources:

    Get Your Marriage On Podcast by Dan Purcell discusses matters relating to building an intimate and sexy marriage with Christian values.

    Our YouTube channel has many useful videos on the topics of sex, intimacy, and marriage.

    Check out our Instagram account with quotes, reels, and other discussions about sex and marriage.

    Our Facebook page also is an active place to learn about Get Your Marriage On and the material we teach.

    We’ve written hundreds of articles on this website’s blog about sex, marriage, intimacy, and many other related topics.

    Who are my coaches when we sign up?

    Unlike signing up for a course for you to consume (and forget about), our program is all about action and helping you apply principles anyone can master to build a stronger, more intimate marriage. We will guide you through this process.

    The team consists of Dan & Emily Purcell, founders of Get Your Marriage On!; Amy & Greg Langford, certified life coaches, and Tammy Camp, certified marriage & intimacy coach. 

    In addition, you have access to professionals such as mental health therapists, pelvic floor physical therapists, and other specialists through our network when you join the program.

    Is there an ongoing monthly fee?

    We believe this program is the last program you’ll ever need for strengthening intimacy in your marriage (see our Results page for proof). You get lifetime access to weekly coaching to help you apply principles to your situation, a comprehensive course, and an app to help you achieve your goals.

    Private coaching is available for those interested in accelerating their growth even more.

    What bonuses do I get when I sign up?

    This program is for couples and individuals that want to up-level their marriage via our proven step-by-step method and access via the Next Level system.

    • We will mail you a welcome package with two copies of the guide, our action planner, and a few other goodies for the bedroom worth over $200.
    • You will also receive upgraded access to our other apps (Intimately Us and Just Between Us).
    • You also gain access to workshops and other bonus content.
    • Additional bonuses will be shared with you from time to time.

    What is coaching like?

    Coaching is getting real-time guidance and help in any aspect of your relationship. The goal of coaching is to help you sharpen your thinking and give you tools to help you make better life decisions.

    Through our Next Level system, we offer four types of coaching meetings. You’re welcome to just attend and observe our group coaching meetings (don’t need to come on camera or mic if you’re not ready for it):

    • Open Group Coaching, where all Next Levelers (members) are invited to attend.
    • Men’s Only, Women’s Only, and 55+ Only meetings
    • Courageous Couples, anonymized private coaching where the couple’s identifying details are changed. These audio-only sessions are shared with other Next Level members via the private podcast.
    • Private coaching, for individuals and couples that want a private 1:1 or 2:1 experience.

    What’s the difference between coaching and therapy?

    There’s a lot of overlap between marriage coaching and marriage therapy. Our professional coaches receive much of the same training as therapists. Our coaches use the same research-based theories and models as therapists do in our practice. Our professional coaches invest in the latest training available to help our couples thrive in our program.

    Like therapists, our professional coaches are invested in your success as a couple and partner with you to help you achieve your goals.

    Our professional coaches do not treat mental health concerns such as depression or severe emotional trauma. When appropriate, we will refer you to a specialist to treat those concerns.

    Because coaches are not subject to restrictive state licensing requirements, our clients enjoy more flexibility. For example, our professional coaches can work with couples across state lines without license limitations. This also saves us dozens of hours of busywork each week from writing documentation for insurance billing purposes.

    Traditionally, therapy focuses on healing what’s broken where coaching is focused on helping you win. Coaching emphasizes actions you can take to see the results you’re seeking. Coaches can be more personal by sharing their own experience through similar challenges.

    What times of day or week do you offer coaching?

    We vary our times of the week for coaching to make it easy for you to find a time that works for you. We have some meetings during the day and others at night. After you join, you can view the monthly calendar and sign up for all of the sessions you want to join.

    What are the modules and what will I learn in the Next Level System of your program?

    When you sign up, you will receive full access to the course that teaches you the step-by-step program for building an intimate marriage. Here are the ten modules in the course:

    1. Taking 100% Responsibility and the Spiritual Work of Sexual Development
    2. Three Stage Framework
    3. The Challenges of Modern Sexual Relationships
    4. Awareness and Accountability
    5. Balanced Belonging
    6. Courageous Choosing
    7. Developing Desire
    8. Anatomy of Arousal
    9. Embracing Eroticism
    10. Living Orgasmically

    Each module contains reflection questions to help you apply what you learn. In addition to the ten modules, the program includes bonus material on a variety of topics related to sex and intimacy in marriage.

    My spouse isn’t interested (yet). Should I wait to do it together or start by myself?

    It’s common for one spouse to be more interested in improving the marriage relationship than the other. We believe intimate marriages are a system: when one spouse begins to change, it immediately affects the other spouse.

    The program is designed so that you can start the program yourself and immediately begin applying the principles and receive the coaching you need to start seeing results. Your spouse can join when he or she is ready.

    I want a stronger marriage. Why so much emphasis on sex?

    Great question! We believe the way you interact sexually is an accurate map of how you interact intimately, and visa versa. We also believe that of all of the aspects of a marriage, the sexual aspect is one of the most challenging parts to get right. One you gain the skills to improve the sexual relationship, those skills transfer to the rest of the relationship.

    The physical aspects of sex can also be healing and bonding to a marriage. The work required to develop as a couple sexually parallel the work needed to grow spiritually as well.

    Will I learn how to do X, Y, or Z (sexual technique) in this program?

    This program doesn’t emphasize particular techniques, such as how to perform oral sex better or step-by-step techniques for women to learn how to have multiple orgasms. Although mastering good techniques is an important part of being a good lover in bed, this program instead focuses on building a good foundation for intimacy and exploration.

    We offer bonus material on how to master certain sexual techniques to complement the core program.

    Will this help me overcome _____ (premature ejaculation, difficulty with orgasm, differences in sexual desire, unwanted pornography use, etc.)?

    Yes, maybe! Many difficulties with sexual dysfunction, sexual frustration, or sexual habits have their root in the way people respond to interpersonal challenges. Our coaches are trained to help you in all of these areas.

    Do you offer any guarantees?

    Yes, we have a 30 day money-back satisfaction guarantee. If you find that the program doesn’t meet your expectations as outlined here, we’ll offer you a full refund.

    I’m a very private person, and this is scary for me.

    We’ve got you. Your privacy is very important to us, and the program is designed such that you can stay as anonymous and private as you want to be. You can also find comfort in the fact that almost all other couples and individuals in the program are private too and working through their challenges in becoming more intimate as a couple.

    How do I sign up?

    I have more questions. How do I get in contact with you?

    Feel free to email us at support@getyourmarriageon.com.